Lemonade

I just finished reading an article by Rev. George Clifford "Is celibacy the preferred Christian option?" (www.episcopalcafe.com/daily) What are my thoughts on this subject after reading this article?

I agree that there are different stages or seasons in life: infancy, childhood, adolescence, teenage, and adulthood. I think of my life as a journey. Throughout my journey, I have spent a lot of time traveling alone. There was a time when I was the busy student living with my family. The young adult working her first real job. The young busy career woman, married with children, juggling the responsibilities of work and home. Currently, I find myself at the empty nest stage. I'm single, still working, preparing for retirement, filling up the empty spaces of my time with lots of activity.

What was it like for the disciples when they left their families and the comforts of home to follow Jesus? Some of them were married. While with Jesus, they lived a monastic, celibate, life. In my current status, I can relate to this. I have been curious about God and a spiritual person at a very young age. I continue to seek Him throughout my life.

Paul wrote to the church about Christ's teachings. On the subject of celibacy he had this to say (paraphrase)"God is a jealous god. It is better for a man or woman not to marry. But if you find yourself overtaken with passion, it is better to marry than to fornicate and die in sin." I also think it is better to be single and have a peace of mind than to be in an unhealthy relationship.

Whatever your status, single or married it is a gift. I know I fall short sometimes, but overall I hope I am using my gift well. I will continue to make lemonade when life gives me lemons. This is my way of being optimistic. (click on title "Lemonade" for link to video.)
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